Tuesday, August 2, 2022

'Harmony Addiction'?

 WELT had a piece written by Anne Maas....entitled: 'With Harmony Addiction, You Fuel A Downward Spiral'.

So the discussion centers around a behavior often seen with Germans....you try continually to avoid arguments or clashing with others.  In simple terms, you try hard to avoid any conflicts....not at the office....not with neighbors....not with relatives....etc.

It's worth a read, if you can pick up a WELT from today....but it will probably make you pause and ponder.

'Harmony addiction' tends to mean that you see something of a harsh nature approaching....quietly accept it without any argument, to ensure 'peace' or tranquility. 

In the US.....people tend to see this type of atmosphere brewing, and quietly put out their resume....to leave the operation as soon as possible.  The same is true with divorces.....leave before things get extremely stressful.

Germans?  They often see this peaceful path as the best long-term practice....even if it makes you unhappy and miserable.  

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